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	<title>Comments on: Would You Rather Be Right or Happy?</title>
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		<title>By: casino enthusiast</title>
		<link>http://www.pat-burt.com/general-web/would-you-rather-be-right-or-happy/comment-page-1/#comment-54089</link>
		<dc:creator>casino enthusiast</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2011 04:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>being happy in your work means a lot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>being happy in your work means a lot.</p>
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		<title>By: samuel_i2s</title>
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		<dc:creator>samuel_i2s</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Apr 2011 07:00:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for Sharing..Keep it up</description>
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		<title>By: Alison Cross</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alison Cross</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 17:32:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d take happy every time - especially when designing other people&#039;s sites!

Being right is over-rated anyhoo ;-)

It sounds a bit new-agey, but if you can reframe the thing that you have a problem with, so that it causes you less stress, so much the better.  It doesn&#039;t have to be &#039;right&#039; when you refocus, it just has to make you feel better (or happy, as per this blog title).

For example - if a client totally flies off the handle about something minor, instead of being all wounded or snippy in return, I try to reframe the situation - maybe they&#039;ve got something else, much worse, that they&#039;re having to deal with in their real life; maybe I&#039;ve misunderstood them; maybe they&#039;ve got a point!

Anything that you can do to keep stress levels down and therefore creativity levels up must be a winner ;-)

Alison</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d take happy every time &#8211; especially when designing other people&#8217;s sites!</p>
<p>Being right is over-rated anyhoo <img src='http://www.pat-burt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It sounds a bit new-agey, but if you can reframe the thing that you have a problem with, so that it causes you less stress, so much the better.  It doesn&#8217;t have to be &#8216;right&#8217; when you refocus, it just has to make you feel better (or happy, as per this blog title).</p>
<p>For example &#8211; if a client totally flies off the handle about something minor, instead of being all wounded or snippy in return, I try to reframe the situation &#8211; maybe they&#8217;ve got something else, much worse, that they&#8217;re having to deal with in their real life; maybe I&#8217;ve misunderstood them; maybe they&#8217;ve got a point!</p>
<p>Anything that you can do to keep stress levels down and therefore creativity levels up must be a winner <img src='http://www.pat-burt.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Alison</p>
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		<title>By: Andy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Aug 2008 22:28:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the good post!</description>
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		<title>By: Gaurav_M</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gaurav_M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jun 2008 06:58:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks... Will start believing on that...7 months in web-D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks&#8230; Will start believing on that&#8230;7 months in web-D</p>
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